i ended up calling the doc yesterday, just to check in and let them know i was still waiting. i thought they'd just tell me to remain patient and it would come. i was wrong. they sent me in for a blood pregnancy test, just to make sure, and sent some provera to the pharmacy.
four tries and one 2 inch purple bruise later, the tech finally got enough blood to tell me what i already suspected. i am not pregnant. just absurdly late.
i will begin the provera tonight for 5 days to induce a period and then onto IUI #1.